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Oh- Four the Love
Nov 2, 20214 min read
Still my small babe
I feel like I say this often- I realize how big my girls are getting. How grown up they’re becoming. I see it on a daily basis, with the “I
Megan
Jun 6, 20218 min read
Meredith's birth story: I’m terrified of my bathtub and here’s why
Did you know today is international homebirth day? Did you know that this day (not by choice) applies to my family now? It has taken me a...
Megan
Apr 20, 20214 min read
Today was not a good day
Today was not a good day. And when I say it was not a good day, I don’t mean we didn’t get out of our pajamas and we ate dry cereal at...
Megan
Feb 23, 20212 min read
Dear Husband
When the world is dark and silent and sleepy is when the weight and loneliness is the loudest. I know you leave the house to go to a job...
Brittany
Jan 12, 20213 min read
Dear Meredith
Hi! I’m your Aunt B! We met about a week ago. I’m not sure if you remember or not; you were totally cool and collected—slept through the...
Megan
Jan 5, 20214 min read
A pillow made me cry today
Want to hear why a pillow placed in my daughter’s crib made me turn into a big ol’ pile of mushy, gushy feelings today? You’re in luck....
Oh- Four the Love
Dec 29, 20203 min read
Mom Culture
Okay. Let’s take a minute to get real. Or, even more real. Because if you’ve been keeping up with us for a while, then you should know we...
Megan
Dec 22, 20204 min read
Default parent
What does it feel like to not be the default parent? No, I genuinely want to know. Like talk dirty to me, go into full-detail and don’t...
Brittany
Dec 8, 20202 min read
Still needed
I sit here at 1:05 in the afternoon, tired and brewing a cup of coffee I should probably be skipping. But I’m going to drink it all the same
Brittany
Oct 14, 20202 min read
Will you forgive me?
You, my baby, are turning three. And it is hitting me so hard.
Just weeks ago, your Aunt watched me burst into full blown tears, surrounded
Megan
Sep 30, 20204 min read
The most un2020 day
I am exhaling, I am dreaming of our future family of four, I am reveling, and I am remembering how lucky I am to have the people around me..
Megan
Sep 9, 20204 min read
These are my confessions
Confession: my tiny tot is testing my patience and I don’t know how much longer I can hold out. Repeats, “When little people are...
Megan
Aug 12, 20203 min read
The juggle
How do you juggle? How do you juggle everything that needs to be done? The grocery shopping, the cooking, the constant cleaning, the laundry
Megan
Jul 29, 20205 min read
Who you’ll be?
I have thoughts about who she’ll become often, but today I found myself doing it every time we tried our hand at any activity. I felt this..
Megan
Jul 27, 20203 min read
Still doing the work, part 4
I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing or if the things I’m doing are the right things to do. But we have to try, we have to start some...
Megan
Jul 24, 20204 min read
Grateful for less weight
You ever want to know how much your partner actually does? Do everything without them. Never again will I take having him around to help...
Megan
Jul 20, 20202 min read
Still doing the work, part 3
One of Addison’s other passions, outside of reading, is coloring. She loves to sit and color anything she can, she doesn’t discriminate...
Megan
Jul 15, 20204 min read
If you have a newborn, your partner is now your baby
We might have had a baby together, but darling, your child, your priority right now, is not that sweet precious bundle of joy. It is me.
Brittany
May 20, 20202 min read
You’re what I never knew I needed
You came crashing into life with an intoxicating boldness. You love what you love and you make absolutely no apologies. I am learning so muc
Megan
May 18, 20203 min read
One mother of a day
Mother’s Day was a beautifully hard day for me. Some of you, who have kept up with my recent writings, might be able to guess why.
Oh- Four the Love
May 4, 20203 min read
Learning the cry
I spent her infant days cycling through things that I thought it could be until we hit the nail on the head. Was she hungry? Need a new diap
Megan
Apr 20, 20204 min read
Full-time employee, full-time mom, big ol' failure
I never saw myself as someone who would quit her job to stay home to take care of her family. I had always enjoyed the work I did...
Brittany
Apr 15, 20203 min read
Going to bed
I am trying to be a good E V E R Y T H I N G. Literally everything. To everyone. All of the time. Everywhere I go. Every second. Of every si
Brittany
Apr 6, 20203 min read
It’s not you, it’s me
If I had a nickel for every conversation I was a part of or overheard that entailed listing a nauseating number of activities....let’s just
Megan
Apr 3, 20204 min read
Our unexpected first birthday celebration
My daughter turned one on March 25th. We had planned a small party for her with friends and family for March 21st. Right before shit hit the
Brittany
Apr 1, 20203 min read
My Hat Rack is Maxed
I was a yes man, determined to prove to myself and the universe that I could still do it all. Spoiler alert: I COULDN’T. I *shouldn't*.
Megan
Mar 30, 20206 min read
When breast wasn’t our best
There’s no reason I couldn’t still maintain the crazy diet and breastfeed her, right? But sometimes, you have to consider your own happiness
Megan
Mar 27, 20205 min read
Just a dump of a day
When it rains, it pours? Well, when you’re having a dump of a day, someone gives you a literal dump to round it all out and keep you humble.
Brittany
Mar 23, 20203 min read
SO WHAT NOW?
we decided we needed a short list of attainable things we can be doing to make sure that both ourselves and our littles are getting what we
Oh- Four the Love
Mar 18, 20206 min read
Quarantivities
Are you under lockdown and struggling with how to fill your days? We can’t promise that these are groundbreaking ideas, but we hope some of
Megan
Mar 11, 20203 min read
No one told me that becoming a mom would also mean becoming invisible
Somehow, as I transitioned into being everything for my tiny little human, it has been forgotten that I am a person with my own set of needs
Brian
Mar 9, 20203 min read
Man Cave, Shman Cave
I’ve always dreamed of having my own Man Cave (my wife will roll her eyes here) – somewhere I can just be a dude and do dude things. But any
Megan
Mar 6, 20205 min read
Down to the poopy wire and up to my eyeballs in anxiety
We are down to the poopy wire of when we should get this thing out of our system with ZERO sight of [the screw] and I am un-rav-el-ing.
Brittany
Mar 4, 20203 min read
Mud Puddles
Now it is time to escape the rain. I turn to put your squishy hand in mine and it is not where I think it is. Wait. Where are your hands?
Brittany
Mar 2, 20204 min read
Bonus Mommin' Ain’t Easy
You know what feels harder than parenting? Step-parenting. You become the invisible parent. The one who is largely unrecognized[...]
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